Insider guide to interracial dating

25-Dec-2019 14:32

Maybe you don’t have a particular “Chad” in mind but you watched the royal wedding or back episodes of “Scandal” or even re-watched Sanaa Lathan in “Something New” and you’re curious.

Maybe you have a specific white dude already in mind and you want some insider tips on how to navigate the ebony/ivory road.

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Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter to me why you’re reading this article. I’m black, my man is white and we’ve been together for over six years.

Plus you won’t have to reprogram him on stuff a prior black girl told him that doesn’t apply to you.

If he’s been on an exclusive dating diet of black woman, I think that’s ok too. You may be concerned he has a fetish or that there is something disingenuous about his interest, i.e. But even if you being black was the reason he first asked you out, the relationship won’t last if there isn’t real love or partnership there.

I say, who cares why a person asked you out initially if it leads to something special. And what about your random (to Chad) black girl interests?

The stuff that he’s culturally grown up being into that you’ve never heard of or know nothing about and vice versa?

Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter to me why you’re reading this article. I’m black, my man is white and we’ve been together for over six years.Plus you won’t have to reprogram him on stuff a prior black girl told him that doesn’t apply to you.If he’s been on an exclusive dating diet of black woman, I think that’s ok too. You may be concerned he has a fetish or that there is something disingenuous about his interest, i.e. But even if you being black was the reason he first asked you out, the relationship won’t last if there isn’t real love or partnership there.I say, who cares why a person asked you out initially if it leads to something special. And what about your random (to Chad) black girl interests?The stuff that he’s culturally grown up being into that you’ve never heard of or know nothing about and vice versa?By the way, lacrosse and soul train are stand-ins for whatever that means for you and your would be Chad.