Dating right after breakup

01-Nov-2019 02:02

A few years ago, I was traveling home after the Thanksgiving holiday when I met a guy who looked exhausted. Sometimes it can reignite excitement, other times it can show you who someone really is based…

Whether you’ve been dating for a few weeks or you’re coming up on double-digit anniversaries, escaping for a vacation with your love interest may reveal more about your relationship than you ever knew before.

The peak of getting your partner back is like a heroin rush to your system.

My long term Narcissist was a white collar worker and had long dark hair, bronze skin and dark eyes.

Friday arrives, you put on your best outfit, your hair looks great and you’re not even thinking of whats-his-face. He’s funny and amusing and you start to picture your life with this person.

You’re caught up in the excitement of the evening, you get in your car and you’re off to meet your potential new mate. While you’re in the bathroom stall you text your best friend, “I think I just met my future husband.” The date ends, you hug and give him a peck on the cheek.

You pull up your old profile from that dating site, put your pictures back up and within a few minutes you’ve already got a couple of messages.

You’re excited, a little nervous and you’re not obsessing as much over jerkface, who hasn’t made any effort to contact you.

My long term Narcissist was a white collar worker and had long dark hair, bronze skin and dark eyes.

Friday arrives, you put on your best outfit, your hair looks great and you’re not even thinking of whats-his-face. He’s funny and amusing and you start to picture your life with this person.

You’re caught up in the excitement of the evening, you get in your car and you’re off to meet your potential new mate. While you’re in the bathroom stall you text your best friend, “I think I just met my future husband.” The date ends, you hug and give him a peck on the cheek.

You pull up your old profile from that dating site, put your pictures back up and within a few minutes you’ve already got a couple of messages.

You’re excited, a little nervous and you’re not obsessing as much over jerkface, who hasn’t made any effort to contact you.

We like what we know and these feelings, even if they’re dysfunctional, feel like home.